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May 15, 2007
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Foreign Objects + Buttocks = Yes

It recently came to my attention that some of my friends are anti-butt sex. I must say, I found the revelation pretty shocking.

Maybe I was exposed to the writings of Tristan Taormino at too young an age, or maybe I met too many gay men too early in life — whatever the reason, I’ve never really seen butt sex as something odd or taboo. Sure, it’s not for everyone: but hey, neither are blowjobs.

I’ve always associated prejudice against butt sex with a certain level of small-mindedness. A former boss of mine (who was also in the habit of labeling women who’d had multiple sex partners as “promiscuous”) once declared anal sex to be “unnatural,” arguing that if the anus were meant to be penetrated, it would be elastic, like the vagina.

And if the mouth were meant to be penetrated, it wouldn’t have teeth. And if women were meant to enjoy clitoral stimulation, penises would be shaped a whole hell of a lot differently.

Pleasure isn’t about what’s natural, it’s about what feels good (and for the curious: here’s a little information about why anal sex feels good). And if anal sex (or oral sex, or handjobs, or whatever) doesn’t feel good to you, then leave it out of your sexual repertoire.

But personally, I don’t plan on doing so.

[NB: Anti-anal activists, beware! New York recently declare butt sex to be the next big thing.]

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