BY Lux Alptraum
July 25, 2008
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Here at Boinkology, we love our commenters — and we want to show them that love. Every week, we pick our favorite comment, and celebrate the commenter with a little gift.

After a long hard battle, I’m back to health — and just in time to give out this week’s commenter award!

This week’s award goes to axe, who offered up these thoughts on choosing a time to reveal a secret to a new partner:

I’ve found that there is no right time to tell someone.

If I confess to my interest in being submissive to a dominant woman early in a relationship, I’ll usually be told “that’s something that should be discussed later in the relationship”. If I bring it up later then the answer is “you should have told me from the beginning”.

The only option is to look for someone who’s into BDSM from the start. Doing so does limit the options however.

Sad but (too often!) true! As a prize, we’re giving you a book with a secret compartment. At least when you reveal your secrets, you’ll be able to do it in style.

[Photo by randycox]